Its not mutual

"¡Hermano yo tengo una grande problema!" That's the first sentence that came out of my little brothers mouth when he got home. I just happen to be taking a nap till he interrupted me, and of course my first reaction is "¡callate, tú grita a muchas!" I'm guessing he didn't take the hint that I was extremly tired and didn't want to be bothered. He burst in my room and told me he had a serious problem (the dr. tried telling him that years ago.) and of course I just had to ask "¿qué pasa?" He looked at me for a moment and told me about how there was a girl at his school that completely disgusted him, that it made him itch just looking at her. I thought he was being rude at first until he told me the reason why. He asked me what would I do, normally I'd tell him I don't know what to tell you I don't know what that's like. Oh but I just happen to know what to say to him about this particular issue, simply because I have someone that I don't see as a boyfriend but more of friend. I have a friend who likes me, but I don't like him like that for 3 reasons. 1.I just got out of a relationship that ended for all the wrong reasons, 2.I still have feelings for my ex, and 3.I need time to heal. However even then I don't think I would see him as a boyfriend then I think I would just see him as an older brother then. I known this person for like 2weeks now, its been almost a month since my last relationship you do the math. I'm not one to hurt someones feelings and just up and tell them no I don't like you because I'm not like that I'm not a rude person.....until you bring out the rude in me. My friend has told me twice that he's interested in me and I've told him twice I can't be nor can I handle being in a relationship right now. I still haven't told him that I don't see him like that simply because I haven't known him that long and things could change. I take so much caution because I've seen when people get into relationships with people that they don't like, not only that, but I've done it myself in the past. When you do that you feel this thing called "kickback karma" its when you instantly know that something gonna end bad. A lot of people ignore that feeling and just keep going on with the relationship. They're with someone who probably has mad feelings for them, yet the feeling isn't mutual. When you do messed up crap like that, not only can you ruin the friendship, but you also screw up the person emotional process. Meaning they're not going to be that same undercontrol person everybody used to know they're gonna be angry, hurt, and most of all desperate for someone to stop them from hurting which in most cases fails epically. So my advice to my little brother and everyone else out there, let that person know before its too late save yourself and that person the drama just by telling them the truth.

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