Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Inside Out

Has someone ever told that a team or group runs like a machine, all the pieces need to be in sync doing there job। Otherwise the entire thing falls apart and the team or group is no more. I've never been told that however I've heard it plenty of times on T.V shows. I have this group that had problems to begin with long before I joined it, People came people went it however they always took a piece of the group's memory with them same as any group or team. I joined last year and since then some of the problems have gone away and some still simmer. Now you tell me how I should take this, how should I handle this situation? A sophmore in our group is on the edge of being kicked out because yesterday's issue got out and everyone seems to be coming up to me constantly asking about yesterday. I didn't say anything about it neither did three of my friends, this sophmore claims she said nothing, but she;s the only one who's been known to decieve people in the group. I don't know wether or not I should keep her in the group or just go ahead and kick her out. I had already told her this group has enough problems with the crap everyone else says about us, we don't need any more problems especially when we're having problems getting rid of our current problems. If you cannot keep your mouth shut about our business then you need to find somewhere else to hang out and not talk to me nor anyone in this group. I wouldn't give her chance to speak I was so heated I culdn't believe this was happening for a second time a deciever in our group once more trying to climb her way up the popularity ladder. Time went on and I get pulled in the counsler's office because she fiured if she talks to me one-on-one then she could give me crocodile tears and I would just tell everybody to stay off her back. Think again I told her first things first whipe away the tears they don't work on me nor will they ever. She told me that only people that she told were her parent, but one of her friends were on the phone and heard EVERYTHING so whoever that was told someone and viola you have our business out and around spreading like a forest fire. Reguardless of wether she told people or not she let it happen she let someone else hear about what happen. So now I'm stuck with the decision between kicking her out and letting her stay. I'm really not sure what I should do its not an easy decision, but its simple. Our group is being ridiculed from the inside out.

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